Privacy in Social Networks?

I recently received an email with the following information:

…the top results from Harris Interactive’s survey of over 2,000 social media users.

  • 44% want to create a place where they could only share with their close friends and family.
  • 42% want to be more careful with what they shared online.
  • 36% want more control over who can see what they shared.
  • 25% want to spend less time updating social media accounts.

Check. Check. Check. Check. Sounds right up Spokt’s alley, right? I don’t buy it.

Here’s how this reads to me:

…the top results from Some survey of over 2,000 high school and college-aged girls:

  • 44% want to date a nice guy.
  • 42% want to spend less time hanging out with guys that are jerks.
  • 36% want more controls and curfews put in place to keep them safe.
  • 25% want to think more long-term when choosing who they date.

We know what is good for us but we don’t always do it. That’s life, right?

Sign up for spokt, invite your friends and family: be safe, live healthy.

 

New Photo List

I was looking for a photo the other day and it took me quite a while to discover that I never uploaded it to spokt. The experience reminded me that I wanted a better photo list.

Before:
Before

After:
After

 

HTML5 Video (iPad, iPod Touch, & iPhone)

Now you can view videos posted to spokt on your iPad, iPod Touch, or iPhone.

Also if you use Safari on your desktop the videos will use the html5 “video” tag instead of using flash.

Enjoy!

 

Merry (Late) Christmas

We fixed videos!

The video processing service we used was acquired by another company and it took some doing to integrate into the new system but I think we’ve done it.

Let me know if you have problems viewing old or uploading new videos.

 

Featured at Kidsideals.com

We’re running a deal today and tomorrow on kidsideals.com – basically you pay $10 and get any hub for a year for free.

Check it out – if you live in LA you might want to sign up for kidsideals for deals delivered to you daily.

 

From the Father-In-Law

Everyone has to live their own life which many times means we go our seperate ways. Ideally it would be great to all live in the same town so that we could visit often. Asher went away to another oasis of family. Reanne went away for military duty. This one is for you Dan: “Spokt keeps us together”.

 

Post Attachments

I wanted to share an audio file with my family so I added a feature that will let you upload files as attachments to posts. Just click “Add News” to see the new “Attachment” Browse button.

Share audio clips, genealogy files, spreadsheets, zipped archive files… whatever you want. Just keep it legal.

Enjoy.

 

Planned Maintenance: May 10

We have scheduled maintenance on May 10. During this time, spokt.com will be unavailable. Downtime from this maintenance should be no greater than 15 minutes, and is scheduled to occur between 8 PM and 9 PM EST.

 

Privacy Concerns Us

A user shared the following:

“I never really valued the privacy of a site like this until now! We are interviewing to hire at my work, and as I sat to interview this man, he proceeded to tell me MY life story! My arms are shaking as I write this! Most unsettling, he knew how much I don’t really like my current job and that wish I were elsewhere. He’s in there interviewing with my boss now, and I’m so scared! AAAAAHHHHHH!

Um, yay Spokt.”

– Name Witheld

 

Don’t People Use Facebook for That?

It’s a variation of a question I get asked whenever I start to explain Spokt.com. I am a Facebook user and I think it is great for what it is. Most of my family are Facebook users as well but we keep in touch with spokt.com and these are the main reasons why:

1. Conversations
2. Privacy
3. Multi-Personality

Spokt.com is not about getting friends, connecting with old classmates, playing farmtown, Mafia wars, or scrabble. It’s not for marketing yourself as a social media advocate, guru, coach, or any other buzzword job title. It is about having conversations with people you are close to. The conversations happen as a family or as a group.

My family has been using it for years and we love it. I log in and immediately know how many unread posts are waiting for me. Imagine sitting around the living-room with your family talking. The conversation drifts and spawns new conversations. It’s fun. That’s what spokt lets you do without having to be in the same room and without having to be online at the same time.

No other web application gives conversations as much emphasis as Spokt.com. Conversations are valuable. Have you ever tried to have a conversation with more than two people over email? It’s a lot to sift through. We built Spokt for user enjoyment but it has a big practical side to it.

Privacy. This one is important but the most boring to talk about. There may or may not be privacy settings on Facebook that may or may not allow prying eyes to see information about you. I know I’ve tried to lock down my account as tightly as I could but I don’t really have confidence that the information is private. I don’t want to spend my time navigating the privacy options, reading the terms of service, digesting all that is written about Facebook and privacy. I treat the information I share as public just in case they ever decide to make it be public or in case they share it with advertisers or…whoever. Spokt is private. You and your family get to read your posts. There is no other way to use spokt.com. The information is yours not ours, we don’t see it, we don’t share it.

This last “feature” is a little subtle but one of my favorites. I’m calling it multi-personality here but Seinfeld fans might know it as “Independent George” (youtube). Inside spokt I belong to a “Hixon Family” hub. The members of this hub are my parents, siblings, and in-laws. I’m also in my wife’s family hub: “Mills Family.” In the “Mills Family” hub I’m a son-in-law. I act slightly differently in these two hubs. I also have a hub with some of my closest friends. Sometimes I’ll post something to one hub and not the others and sometimes I post to all three. I think we all act a little differently in different company and I think that’s okay. You don’t send all your emails to everyone you know so why does it make sense to have a global “Status update?”

There you have it. Why Facebook, twitter, etc., aren’t enough. Check out our demo video, sign up, and invite your family today. It’s as free as Free Parking.